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Qasim Rafique

Scottish Relationship Expert, Certified Coach

Published Author, Speaker, Mentor

“Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.”

— Soren Kierkegaard

Mission Statement

Making professional,

Islamic- based coaching accessible, affordable and convenient - so anyone who struggles with life’s challenges can get help, anytime, anywhere.



“No one is useless in this world who lightens the burdens of another.” 
― Charles Dickens

Born in Wales, UK and raised in Scotland, I have always had a passion for service. In my early years, I trained in advanced first aid and joined an ocean rescue team abroad. Upon my return to the UK, I followed my desire to serve the community by working as a police officer in Scotland (Strathclyde Police).

My Approach To Coaching


I offer an online space in which difficult feelings can be explored between couples or individuals without judgment or blame. 


My role is to provide a safe and informed place in which individuals or couples can become clear about what is happening between them, allowing them to make healthy choices, and move forward to make decisions with greater clarity and understanding.


I provide relationship, marital and life coaching from an Islamic perspective using Cognitive Behavioural Therapy & Neuro-Linguistic Programming techniques. I help couples more truthfully know themselves and each other. This leads to a better understanding of how their inner selves are affecting their day-to-day lives.

Coaching Sessions

Coaching empowers individuals to achieve their goals relatively quickly, easily
and efficiently with faith based, goal & solution-focused approach.
Sessions can be one-to-one, one-to-two, or for small to large groups.
All coaching is faith based, science-based, solution-focused, proactive, results-driven, compassionate, logical, intuitive and nearly always fast-working, producing lasting results.
I deal with issues at their root cause and solutions incorporate practical steps.
Session length = 1 hour for one-to-one & one-to-two

 Positive Outcomes

  • Resolve chronic issues

  • Resolve long-standing issues

  • Remove psychological barriers

  • Remove practical barriers

  • Close difficult chapters

  • Lose bad habits quickly

  • Create good habits quickly

  • Achieve goals

  • Become resilient

  • Become happy

  • Become healthy

  • Become productive

  • Gain clarity

  • Problem solve

  • Make good decisions

  • Become self-compassionate

  • Realign negative relationships

  • Build positive relationships

Want A Better Marriage?

In my book, "7 Life Lessons on the Myths of Marriage", we explore a number of topics that so many of us struggle with when it comes to dealing with marriage, including love, intimacy, compromise, compatibility, and communication. So whether you're looking to get married, are already married, or have been hurt by divorce - this book can help you reestablish focus on what really matters in marriage.


Invite Me To Speak

My work is all about forging stronger connections and I approach my speaking and workshops in this same vein. I craft experiences to engage, inspire and inform.


As a speaker at conferences, mosques, and retreats, I infuse my presentations and workshops with creativity, courage, and compassion. 

Some topics I currently present on:

  • Premarital Coaching

  • Sexual and Emotional Disconnect

  • Infidelity

  • Parental Alienation 

  • Divorce

  • Addiction - Pornography 

  • Islamic Identity

  • Narcissistic Behaviour 

  • Toxic Masculinity

Here’s what you can expect from me:

  • Prompt, courteous replies to your phone calls and email messages.

  • A personal consultation with me prior to your event, so that I can better understand the particular needs of your audience.

  • A professionally prepared, dynamically delivered, targeted presentation, customized to the needs of your audience.

  • A prompt follow-up communication after the event to ensure I met your expectations.

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